Our Connection Studio
The Art of Friendship- Parents of Neurodiverse Children
Experience connection, understanding and support through mindfulness, creativity and care for the caregiver. Parenting for parents of neurodiverse children is both hard and beautiful, but is certainly better done together with other parents who ”get it”.
The Art of Friendship- Teens
High school groups are centered on the essential practice of conversation, hanging-out skills, and life-skills. Our adolescent groups are designed to meet the needs of teenagers ages 15-19, for whom the main developmental tasks are:
Developing a clear and strong self-identity around personal interests and strengths to use in peer groups.
Increasing independence and autonomy gradually.
Building skills for transition to activities of young adulthood such as college or employment.
Our groups empower teenage participants to succeed, which helps them create their own self-identity and self-esteem. The group’s focus often turns to peer support as participants share and brainstorm solutions for their social experiences from school and home.
The Art of Friendship- Elementary School Aged (6-11)
Our innovative elementary school social skills groups focus on the important developmental tasks of 6-11 year olds. The elementary school child gains self-esteem by developing three attitudes about him or herself.
I can succeed socially with friends.
I can handle school and family expectations.
I can manage my feelings and impulses.
These attitudes are built up with social practice through individual/group art projects, game playing, and imaginary play. Developmentally appropriate conversation practice occurs simultaneously as participants share projects and ask questions.
The Art of Friendship- Middle School Years
Our middle school groups recognize the difficulty in this transitional time in the young adolescent’s life. We help normalize and support the inner experience of the 11-14 year old. Our goal is to help our clients successfully navigate the developmental challenges of middle school:
Overwhelming and chaotic feelings
Changes - both in physical appearance and personal interests
Belonging to a peer group
Social practice is accomplished through individual/group art projects, conversation practice, game playing, role play, and team-building activities. This socialization may be structured, partially structured, or completely unstructured by the therapist to meet the needs of the group and to challenge participants to master new social skills.
IEP/504 Support and Empowerment
Our Connection Studio is valuable for all students as it develops important skills related to Communication, Cooperation, Emotional Regulation, Empathy Empathy, Impulse Control, and Social Initiation. While a majority of students respond well to basic lessons alone, some will benefit from the additional support of Social Emotional IEP goals written into behavioral plans.
As you develop IEP goals for your child, in partnership with their school, it is important to remember that they must be achievable and measurable. When this is done well, a goal is often referred to as SMART: Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Results-oriented, and Time-bound. List clear expectations for what will qualify as successfully performing and achieving a specific goal and include activities that measure and demonstrate each specific objectively
Teacher Studio
This is a space created just for you, educators. A place for healing. A place of refuge. And a place of connection. Through a carefully crafted set of activities, mindfulness, creativity and reflection, our trained facilitators will take you through a connecting time of reflection and healing as our educators catch our collective breath together.
The Art of Friendship- Ages 3-5
Our gentle preschool groups celebrate this magical developmental period in which fantasy, imagination, and play reign. In a warm, nurturing atmosphere, playful interaction and peer socialization practice is promoted.
Social practice for 4 and 5 year olds is art and play based. Children learn perspective-taking and empathy emotional self-awareness. They practice self-regulation, flexibility, and use of language to get needs met and have fun with peers
- Ability to follow directions and transition
- Cooperative play and reciprocal communication skills
- Negotiation and compromise
- Problem-solving and sharing
Neurodiversity with Sara Hutchinson, LSWAIC
Sara Hutchinson, LSWAIC is available to work directly with individual clients and families with neurodiversity in mind. Sometimes families who are in classes with others prefer to see an individual therapist for portions of the work and classes and therapy can work well together for some folks
About Our Connection Studio
What is Our Connection Studio?
Social Skills Groups provide an opportunity to learn critical social skills in a safe and fun environment with peers. Groups incorporate evidence-based practices to foster social emotional learning for children and adolescents that can be applied in school, the home, and the community.
Format
There will be weekly meetings each one hour long. Groups will be led by experienced clinicians at Rule and Assiciates who use social skills training, education, and therapy to help others lead more meaningful lives.
When & Where
Dates and times will be announced. Sessions will take place at Rule and Associates in one of our three Bellingham WA locations. Please call for details (360) 734-0615
Social Emotional Learning (SEL)
Social emotional learning (SEL) is the process through which children and adults acquire and effectively apply the knowledge, attitudes, and skills necessary to understand and manage emotions, set and achieve positive goals, feel and show empathy for others, establish and maintain positive relationships, and make responsible decisions.
At Rule and Associates, we understand the importance of providing social skills to build social-emotional competencies in children, adolescents, and adults. We also acknowledge that parents and caregivers need strategies to support individuals’ social skills development. Rather than focus on behavioral reduction strategies and what clients, parents, and educators should not do, our approach is to emphasize skill development.
We focus on new social skills or “soft skills”, that are key to success in family, school and professional success. Our groups help children and adults to:
- Start, maintain, & end a conversation, as well as change topics appropriately
- Display calming strategies when upset, frustrated or angry
- Request help appropriately when needed
- Give others a compliment
- State triggers that contribute to feeling angry
- Improve social decision-making and problem-solving
Groups and Classes
The Gift of ADD
Your child has received a diagnosis for ADD, so now what? Learn to celebrate the gift. Did you know Albert Einstein had and Michael Phelps have ADD? Different brains work different ways and we will learn about the joys of the ADD brain.
We will explore strategies to enhance social skills, increase emotion regulation, learn study skills and more.
This group is for children ages 5-10.
A Beautiful Mix
There are aspects of being a parent in a multiracial family that are unique. Whether your family is racially mixed through adoption or birth, you will find community here. We will share ideas about how to raise kids to integrate all aspects of who they are and develop a healthy, secure racial identity.
We will share ideas on how to teach kids to deal with being targets of racism.
The Science of Play
Come celebrate the Power of Play with us! Combining all that we know about attachment theory, child development and the powerful role of play in parenting we will learn how to use play to enhance your child’s learning, improve your relationship and use play as self care.
We will also enjoy a community of families with a potential for building lifelong friendships.
Meditation and Mindfulness for Teens
Being a teen is HARD! Learning how to use mindfulness and breath can make it easier.
Meditation and Mindfulness for Kids
Learn how to use your breath to tame the dragons, regulate emotions and bring your chill back.
Hand in Hand Parenting
Come together with other parents and learn about parenting in a new way, encouraging healthy relationships and attachments.
Empowerment for youth
Youth learn how to use their voice in an assertive and effective way to make the positive change they want to se in their daily lives, their community and the world.
Self compassion group for women
Learn how to cultivate a gentle and powerful inner voice that guides with self grace and self compassion. Two groups: ages 18-24 and 25 and up